Blazing fast, instant realtime GraphQL APIs on your DB with fine grained access control, also trigger webhooks on database events.
Seems like Hasura is good fit.
Ruby on Rails
Your requirements are a perfect use case for using Ruby on Rails. A relations database sounds appropriate as well and RoR supports Postgres out of the box. It also takes care a lot of your concerns like security, stability and productivity.
Collect and Analyze Billions of Data Points in Real Time. Manage all types of time series data in a single, purpose-built database. Run at any scale in any environment in the cloud, on-premises, or at the edge.
Writing filters, sorting and pagination for all my queries is exhausting and repetitive. Is there a better way?
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