cockroach-operator VS node_exporter

On the topic of Postgres, you should look into an operator or Helm chart that can setup common things (like replication and auto-failover), such as Crunchy's Postgres operator, or consider using a "cloud-native" distributed database like CockroachDB (disclaimer: I am a Cockroach Labs employee) which has its own operator as well. Another word of warning, running stateful services, particularly mission critical databases, can require a lot of maintenance work (it's my full-time job), so unless this is for a hobby project, I would highly recommend you look into using a managed database offerring. Every major cloud provider and most database companies have one.

We've been looking into CockroachDB because it has been solid for one of our customers. https://github.com/cockroachdb/cockroach-operator

$ wget https://github.com/prometheus/node_exporter/releases/download/v1.7.0/node_exporter-1.7.0.linux-amd64.tar.gz $ tar -xzvf node_exporter-1.7.0.linux-amd64.tar.gz

Node Exporter

The Prometheus node_exporter can provide this information, doesn't require root. You could run it as a systemd user unit if you don't have root.

I personally find it best to learn through experimentation. Start with reading a bit about Prometheus and Grafana through their docs, and then familiarise yourself with setting up a local Prometheus + Grafana instance either locally or with docker using docker-compose, along with something to generate /metrics endpoint for Prometheus to scrape from such as a custom Prometheus exporter in Python or using Node Exporter.

Your best bet might be to fork node_exporter to get you more verbose socket stats: https://github.com/prometheus/node_exporter/blob/master/collector/sockstat_linux.go

I use Grafana + Prometheus + Node Exporter.

Crazy idea, can't NX devices run Docker? I wonder if the node_exporter would work.

Kubernetes itself will not notify you, the way I've seen people do this, is to use something like kube-state-metrics or node_exporter, export that to Prometheus (or preferrably VictoriaMetrics because Prometheus is terrible IMO), and then setup alarms on that with alertmanager or equivalent, or just look at dashboards regularly with Grafana. Realistically I recommend only setting alerts on disk usage and application/database latency. CPU and memory utilization isn't a great metric to alert on a lot of the time.

You may setup node exporter and collect metrics with prometheus for example. Its not quite "simple" way, but still you may find it useful.